There’s a shop in Middleton that has rows of bottles, mixes and cans — but none of them contain alcohol. It’s called Sober Social, Wisconsin’s first and only non-alcoholic bottle shop. Producer Morgan D. Stewart caught up with its owner, Kristi Tanner, about why she opened the store and their respective recovery journeys.
I met Kristi Tanner, the owner of Wisconsin’s first and only non-alcoholic bottle shop Sober Social, in the way I meet a lot of people as an outgoing extrovert — as a friend of a friend.
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